So, have you ever heard a woman talking to her friends about how all the good men are taken? A common phrase I always hear is, “All the good ones are taken or they’re gay.” Why is that such a common phrase? Are all the good ones really taken or is it just that women are too picky? Or maybe there aren’t that many ‘good ones’ out there.
Last night I came across an article titled, “Ten guys women should run from”. Some of their titles were, Mr. Jealousy, Joe No-Show, The Two-Timer and my favorite of all…Mr. Resentment. I am going to stick to Mr.Resentment to make my point.
I am only 21 years old and I found a ‘good one’ when I was 17. We have had our ups and downs, but in general, I know that he might really be ‘The one’ or ‘Mr.Right’. There is a lot of things I love about Chris, but one thing that I treasure the most is that he wants me to succeed. He wants me to be successful, at the same time as him becoming successful.
Mr. Resentment was described as follows: “Pay close attention to how he handles your accomplishments. If you get a promotion with a raise and he breaks it down to show you how it really only amounts to six dollars a day after taxes, that’s the first strike. When he uses any expression like “your little project”, count that as two. Just because men are having a hard time adjusting to the idea that women are capable breadwinners doesn’t mean you have to martyr yourself into helping them make the transition. There are men out there who are more than happy to bask in the glow their women cast and to consider your talents a positive reflection on them.”
All I have to say is WELL SAID!
Men have to start realizing that it is 2008! Do not be a ‘weak’ woman just because it might make your man feel bad about himself. We are smart, we are brave and we are strong… and if a guy can’t handle that, find another guy!
So it isn’t the fact that all the good ones are taken. I found a good one and don’t lose hope, they are out there! Just don’t settle for a Mr. Resentment!
Hmmmm, so I guess you’re not voting for John McCain or Barack Obama?
Comment by Rick Hancock — February 28, 2008 @ 3:51 am |
Alicia-
I really like your blog because it has a lot of substance to it. The posts aren’t too long, but you definately get your point across. I also like how you are looking beyond your own knowledge of women’s studies, and finding articles to relate to interesting issues.
Your most recent article was fun to read and drew me in because I felt like I could relate to you when you were talking about your boyfriend. It’s nice to get an understanding of the author through reading their work. Obviously, I know you, but if I didn’t and was a random person visiting your blog, I would be enticed to post a comment because your writing has a great conversational style to it. Good job!
Comment by Carissa — March 3, 2008 @ 12:52 am |
Alicia,
I think that your blog is extremely interesting and engaging. Your writing reminds me of a magazine article but easier to read. All of the topics are interesting to read about and be updated on as women. These are topics that do plague women’s daily lives. People all over the world are starving to death because they have no choice about eating and women are choosing not to eat that make millions of dollars. Men are always hard to read and I have fallen into the category of thinking I will never find “the right one.” You have enlightened my day and made me feel better. I will definitely check back at your blog to read more about new topics! Keep up the good work!
Comment by Steph — March 3, 2008 @ 4:32 am |
Alicia, Every time I read one of your stories or articles I’m amazed at what a talented writer you have become. I am very proud of you
Comment by Christine — March 4, 2008 @ 3:20 am |